Hi Julia, Your little girl is super cute! I am so interested in your blog and fund raising effort advice. As a past Manager of a Breast Care Boutique and a Certified Mastectomy Fitter, I have suggested to my patients that they actually fund raise for a wig or additional bras and breast forms that may not be covered by insurance OR my patients may not have had any insurance at all. I have lots of information at pinkribbonconsulting.com, which is my breast cancer support website . My goal and hope is that patients refer me to their medical teams who have limited resources to stay educated about the broad range of products available to breast cancer patients. Having done countless in-services to physician practices, I know patients receive little information at diagnosis. And often never get to take advantage of the benefits of post-op camisoles and bras that help with their recovery and drain management.